Tips on how to ask the big question

While not as lauded as wedding, making the proposal is a huge event. It could even be argued that what the big day is to a woman is what a proposal is to a man. There’s much planning involved, as the atmosphere must be perfect for when you pop the question.

As much as it is an exciting time, it can be quite difficult getting everything together. Are you going to propose by candle light while a violin serenades her heart? Or are you going to do it where you first kissed under the stars? You can find yourself so overwhelmed and, as a result, get cold feet. But fear not, as these tips can help you plan the perfect scenario for when you ask her, “will you marry me.”

Kiss from a Rose

Flowers are everything and can make or break any occasion depending on choice and arrangement. Consider what her favourite blooms are and order them to be delivered to her during the day just so she knows you’re thinking about her. Also leave a meaningful message on the batch to remind them of your love.
For extra measure have another batch delivered later in the day.

Hotel California

Hell hath no fury like a hungry woman’s scorn, so you don’t want to propose to them when they’re on an empty stomach. Make dinner reservations at a lovely restaurant, especially the one they’ve been dying to go to. Alternatively, you can take them to the restaurant you first went on date to. Try to avoid anything tacky, like a fast food outlet; it’s good for the stomach’s grumblings, but not for the yearning of the heart.

Ask the manager if it’s possible to have your own set of flower arrangements, so your area is unique to the rest. Make sure the restaurant offers a quiet and soothing experience where you won’t have to shout at the top of your lungs when you pop the question.

From This Moment On

You don’t necessarily need to pop the question at the restaurant, and you may want to avoid overly crowded places as she might become overwhelmed, which could be disastrous. You should consider taking her to the beach where a violinist will be waiting for you, playing a soulful, harmonious string. However, where you take her is up to you. It should still be peaceful and have a romantic allure about it.

Alternatively, you can try to find out what her dream proposal is and try make it a reality. Avoid anything dangerous that may potentially lead to you or her getting hurt, especially her.

This Gift

While hiding the ring in a glass of wine or the food might sound like a great idea, it’s not as bright when they accidentally swallow three months’ worth of your salary. You may feel the need to have a special presentation, but try to be original. A good idea is to give her a set of puzzles to solve and upon achieving them, she’ll arrive to the ring. Try to look for a puzzle box that only opens when every mystery is solved – she’ll love it.

Apart from its originality, it’s also an adventurous and memorable idea that you’ll both talk about well into you older years together.

The day you decide to you want to ask her to marry you will be an exciting and quite unnerving experience. Always remember to make it as romantic as possible, considering her interests and your past experiences. Make her realise just how much you want to spend the rest of your life with her, and that you value you her.

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